I read about this strategy on a forum many years
ago. Some guys they claimed they walked around Cebu and handed their
number (just their number, no cute message) to girls and that EVERY girl texted
them, and they hooked up with many of them shortly after.
IMO that was complete BS. When I tried handing just my
number with nothing else on the paper to girls I got texts 5% of the time.
Yet these studs got 100%….. sure thing.
Also it usually takes quite awhile to actually meet these
girls.
Those guys were just on a short vacation, I highly
doubt they got lots of girls to insta-bang like that, in my experience that’s
not how it works.
Different Styles
Meeting girls in Asia is super easy and you can take many
different approaches to doing so. I was reading on my bro’s Vietnam blog post where he mentioned he also hands out
numbers.
He does it differently and only gives it to girls he has had
a good conversation with. I am sure he has a MUCH higher rate of
bang per number handed out than I do when doing it this way.
He mentions he likes to become a regular at a coffee shop or
restaurant that has a cute girl working there, chat her up, and eventually give
her his number. There is nothing wrong with that style, it’s just not my
preferred way.
To me that is putting a lot of time and effort into one
girl….. one girl that may be a virgin and afraid to meet a guy. One girl
that may have a husband or serious boyfriend that she really won’t cheat on, or
one girl that just likes to tease.
I prefer to go the other route and just flood whatever
city I am in with numbers.
If I see a 7 or better and I have the chance to approach I
am doing it. There have been months where I have handed out as many as
200 numbers.
By my rough estimates I only end up banging 3% of the
girls I give my number and walk off without a conversation. That is
not many.
But a lot of that has to do with how I proceed once I have
given them my number. I don’t take them out to dinner or dancing or for
drinks. I only hang out with the ones that will have the first date at my
place.
I have also made it clear that I am just looking for friends
nothing serious, and make sure they aren’t hookers. So basically what I am
doing is casting a very wide net and trying to come in contact with as many
girls as I can that are curious about hooking up with a foreigner.
There are many girls like this in Asia, and not many
foreigners. The more you come in contact with the more you will find.
Everyone’s different and if you want to try this you can
tweak it to what fits you best. Maybe you prefer targeting a few really
hot ones and putting in a time investment on them. Both work. When you’re
lazy to go out see who’s online
Picking up Girls in Malls in the Philippines
The first thing you need to do is come up with some creative
thing to write on the paper that will make the girl smile when she reads it.
You can try around with a few different things and settle on
the one that seems to be getting the best results. For one week try one thing,
and the next week try another and use the one that got the most text backs in a
week.
Sorry I can not share exactly what I have written….. I have
already handed it out 1,000 times and we don’t need thousands more of the same
message floating around.
So now you want to write up a lot of these. I
generally carry around at least 8, though there have been days where I have
handed out double digits. I think my record is 12. Head to the busiest
upscale mall in whatever city you are in.
Where to Meet Filipinas
In Manila I would recommend walking around the Greenbelt
mall area, or one of the big SM malls.
In Cebu Ayala and SM are definitely the two prime
ones. For some reason I have much more success in the nicer malls than
the cheaper ones. I think it’s an equal combination of A) girls with more money
have load to text and B) girls with more money have more confidence.
To me the biggest key is always staying on the move. I
have read lots of guys on sexpat boards like PI Addicts who say they go places
looking for girls (admittedly they are mostly talking about hookers) and they
will take a seat and watch the girls go by. For my strat this doesn’t work
You’ll be covering a lot of ground, and more
importantly you need to be ready to pounce when an approach spot opens up.
Most malls will have higher traffic areas than other
spots. Your goal is to find as many hot girls as you can, so the higher
traffic areas are where you need to be.
Just casually stroll around until you see a hot girl and
then walk behind her until you get a good approach spot. That doesn’t
mean a perfect approach spot, just a good one.
Good Approach Spots
The less eyes on you the better. The more people that
she feels are watching her during this the less chance you will have of her
accepting your number, or texting you if she does accept it.
Your goal is to have no one but you and her know that it
happened, but if you waited for only spots like that then you would rarely be
handing out numbers. Just follow her from the busy part of the mall to a less
trafficked side walk way.
Then when no one else is walking towards you from the other
direction go up and make your approach. I prefer no one to be walking to close
behind us as well, but she will be unlikely to look behind her… so how ever
much awkwardness you can put up with from strangers is up to you
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